My last blog post was identifying myself in the third person. There are parts of me that want to leave the wounded girl behind on the road of slavery, and pretend that she is not apart of this new journey. In fact, ignoring the wounded girl would be easier. Ignorance is bliss, right? However, ignoring that she is not apart of me would be determental to the healing process, because my scars have a story to tell. The road to health is never easy. In fact, the hardest part about the healing process is being able to see that there is another road. Then, having the courage to travel on the road of unfamiliarity.
For many years I didn't have the ability to see another road. The road I walked was familiar and comfortable. That road was all I knew. What I am learning is that just because a habit is routine or comfortable doesn't signify signs of health. At times our routine habitats can breed a false sense of security. The road I traveled for many years may have been familiar and comfortable, but was not a road of health.
The truth on this new road is that scars do not mean I have to live a life of bondage. Scars tell a story. Scars are visible reminders of a wound, but are a sign of healing from the inside. My Savior, Jesus Christ, allowed his scars to tell the greatest story every told. His wounds tell that He bore our transgressions, that a ransom was paid in order that we may live a life of freedom in Him.
I encourage others to let your scars tell a story. Often times the experiences we face in life are not so much about us, but for those who we will meet as we sojourn through this life.
Saturday, October 5, 2013
Saturday, September 21, 2013
The Road
She held on to anxiety, fear, rejection, the fear of failure, shame, hurt, and lies. That road was familiar to her and was her home for many years. That road she traveled brought a form of comfort and security to her...that road was slavery.
That road had left her heavy laden, broken, and in a constant state of despair. Even though that was all she ever knew, there was a sweet voice that echoed in the wind..."There is another road."
She tried for many years to chase after that voice. However, that voice could not be tamed by a chase. The voice only seemed to be tamed as she sat still. Stillness though was not her comfort. She wrestled against stillness as she danced with perfectionism and busyness.
She became quite the performer as she grew up. She played the parts well, honor roll student, a friend to all, captain of the cheerleading squad, sorority sister, Bible study leader, daughter, teacher, and wife. She had everyone fooled, even herself.
She thought she could live on that road as long as she sojourned, after all that road was her home. What about the voice that told her differently? The voice that told her that there was another road.
She grew up only seeing one road. How can there be another road? Logic and comfort kept her from seeing the other road. She kept running thinking that at some point on the road there would be a crossroad.
After over three decades of running, the crossroad appeared after she had caused her beloved to weep and feel dejected over the years by her hurling insults.
She never meant to hurt him. He was a gift from God that she earnestly prayed for and dreamed of her whole life.
Being a wife took her by surprise. She did not expect how hard it would be to act. The other roles did not require her to be vulnerable or intimate. The other roles she knew would only be for a season.
This role was different. She had made a covenant.
When the crossroad appeared, there were signs on this road that were not on her other road. The first sign her eyes grazed was yield. She didn't know how to yield, or even what that required.
She immediately wanted to ignore the sign and keep on running. What about the voice?
She was tormented. The other road now stood before her, but was unfamiliar. The other road was not her home.
That road had left her heavy laden, broken, and in a constant state of despair. Even though that was all she ever knew, there was a sweet voice that echoed in the wind..."There is another road."
She tried for many years to chase after that voice. However, that voice could not be tamed by a chase. The voice only seemed to be tamed as she sat still. Stillness though was not her comfort. She wrestled against stillness as she danced with perfectionism and busyness.
She became quite the performer as she grew up. She played the parts well, honor roll student, a friend to all, captain of the cheerleading squad, sorority sister, Bible study leader, daughter, teacher, and wife. She had everyone fooled, even herself.
She thought she could live on that road as long as she sojourned, after all that road was her home. What about the voice that told her differently? The voice that told her that there was another road.
She grew up only seeing one road. How can there be another road? Logic and comfort kept her from seeing the other road. She kept running thinking that at some point on the road there would be a crossroad.
After over three decades of running, the crossroad appeared after she had caused her beloved to weep and feel dejected over the years by her hurling insults.
She never meant to hurt him. He was a gift from God that she earnestly prayed for and dreamed of her whole life.
Being a wife took her by surprise. She did not expect how hard it would be to act. The other roles did not require her to be vulnerable or intimate. The other roles she knew would only be for a season.
This role was different. She had made a covenant.
When the crossroad appeared, there were signs on this road that were not on her other road. The first sign her eyes grazed was yield. She didn't know how to yield, or even what that required.
She immediately wanted to ignore the sign and keep on running. What about the voice?
She was tormented. The other road now stood before her, but was unfamiliar. The other road was not her home.
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